Dear Parent,

The recent debate surrounding Tiger Mom Amy Chua’s strict parenting method has caused a stir in the Western culture. But is there some truth in the matter?

Before you lash out at me, consider these facts:

• In the US, an unbelievable 18.8 million adults suffer from depression and more than 40 million Americans suffer from Anxiety
• Obesity has reached an epidemic state. There are over 58 million overweight people in America
• Alcohol has become the no.1 drug problem and in the US, a person is killed in an alcohol-related car accident every 30 minutes
• Shocking as it might sound, one suicide occurs every 17 minutes and there are approx. 750,000 suicide attempts each year
• Fear of public speaking is the #1 fear in the country
• We face an epidemic of everyday problems such as anxiety, feelings of inadequacy, worry about what others think, and fear of conflict.

Could it be that our “non-tiger” Western parenting is failing our children in some way? Or perhaps... could it be the opposite? Could it be that in our efforts to help our children succeed in life, we’ve placed too much pressure on them, thus affecting their self-esteem and sabotaging our relationship with them?

Where are we as parents supposed to draw the line between discipline, and too much spoiling? Is it true that we need to put on the “tiger hat”, even if we feel like that’s a little too much?

Because at the end of the day, how do we as parents teach our kids the values that will help them succeed in life, if they won’t even listen to us when we ask them to brush their teeth or clean their room?

How Do I Get My Child to Listen to Me?

It is the woe of every well-intentioned parent. I just want my child to listen to me! It is, after all, for their own good, right?

The thing is however, sometimes, if you’re not careful, our efforts as parents to get our children to listen to us can be more damaging than we know it.

Let me first introduce myself before I explain more.

Hi, I’m Shelly Lefkoe and what I’ve discovered after working with thousands of people worldwide is that underlying virtually every one of the problems listed above and countless others are negative beliefs (mostly subconscious) about ourselves and life. Beliefs like I’m not good enough, I’ll never get what I want in life, Relationships are difficult, and I’m powerless. I help top executives, professional men and women, hourly workers, frustrated moms - in fact people from virtually every walk of life and in over 50 countries around the world, deal with an incredible array of day to day problems such as those listed above.

And what I’ve discovered after working with thousands of people is that most of their problems are caused by negative beliefs that were formed in childhood as a result of interactions with parents.

I listen day after day to heart-breaking tales of my clients describing their childhoods, when they were criticized, not heard, invalidated, yelled at, not allowed to make decisions affecting them, and ignored.

I'm sure this is not how you want to treat your children. And I'm equally certain that many times you just don’t realize how your behavior is leading your children to form negative beliefs.

If you look at the problems that our children will experience tomorrow (if they are like most adults), you will realize that these problems will have started with us.

Not because we are bad parents, but because 9 out of 10 parents have never learned how their daily comments and actions are deeply affecting their children, every day, in the most simple interactions.

It’s Not About “Tiger Parenting” or “Western Parenting”... It’s About “Conscious Parenting”

Think about it. These are our children - we brought them into the world. So let’s not shy away from the fact that we are responsible for their emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual development. The onus is on us as parents. This is not an easy job.

WE NEED HELP to understand how our actions and words will affect our children’s beliefs.

Unfortunately, in today’s busy lives and nuclear families, very few parents now have the proper training they need to execute the kind of conscious parenting that focuses on beliefs.

Why do I place emphasis on beliefs when it comes to conscious parenting?

Beliefs Are The Most Basic Aspect Of Human Life And Interaction, Yet They Are Rarely Understood As The Root Source Of Problems In Our Personal, Professional And Parenting Lives.

I know this for a fact. During my 20+ years of experience, I’ve seen how the beliefs people have about themselves, life and parenting, powerfully dictate their feelings, emotions and behavior. And these beliefs in turn powerfully affect their children.

And what is even more surprising is that many of these adult clients didn’t have especially painful childhoods. The source of most of the negative beliefs was seemingly innocent parenting behavior, most of which could have been avoided, if their parents had only known better.

This experience inspired me to go on a crusade to teach parents how to avoid doing and saying things that would lead their children to form damaging beliefs, so their children could grow up feeling confident, happy and free.

I realized that parents needed to know not just what to do, but also why. They needed to really understand how beliefs impacted their children later in life so they would have lasting motivation to change.

Yes, Show Me How To Be A Better Parent & Raise Happy, Confident Children!

I Knew There Just Had to Be A Way to Raise Talented, Successful & Happy Kids, Without the Nagging, Scolding, Screaming and Arguing That Can Affect Your Children’s Beliefs.

Before we move forward, let me ask you few simple questions...

• Do you want your children to be happy, confident and successful?
• Do you sometimes feel that only if you had the right training and guidance then maybe you could be a better parent?
• Do you sometimes wish you understood your son/daughter a little better?
• Do you want to have loving and lasting relationship with your children?
• What if I were to tell you that stress free, joyful parenting is within your grasp—that it will take less than 60 minutes a week to change the course of your child’s life. Would you be interested?

If the answer to any or all the questions is, yes, then congratulations! We both have a common mission: for you to be the best possible parent that you could be and for your children to have a great life, and for me to support you and other parents with the same commitment to reach that goal.

It is with these goals in mind that I realized my mission to becoming a conscious parent and helping others become conscious parents too. So my husband Morty and I co-founded the Lefkoe Institute, and I founded the Parenting The Lefkoe Way.

You see, after working with thousands of clients and learning the type of parenting behavior that leads either to lives filled with problems or lives that work on all levels, I devised a simple system that parents can use to raise confident, happy, successful children.

Today, I am happy to share with this parenting system that has been perfected and tested for over 30 years.

Without further ado, please allow me to introduce, “Parenting, the Lefkoe Way”.

Module 1: The Lefkoe Way - A Revolutionary Approach to Parenting

Module 2: The Two Most Important Questions

Module 3: Beliefs & Effective Parenting

Module 4: Building Self-Esteem in Children

Module 5: The Secrets of Effective Parenting – A Virtual "How To" Manual

Module 6:The Harsh Truth: Beliefs that Destroy Families

Module 7: Beliefs Beyond Your Control

Frequently Asked Questions: How is this Course Different From All Other Parenting Courses Out There?

Most parenting books or courses include hundreds of pages and hours of tips and techniques, some of which are very useful. But what happens when you have to face a situation not mentioned in the book? What do you do then? Without a deep understanding of how your behavior affects your children you may not know what to do?

And that’s where my course is different.

I help you understand the principles that govern how your child forms beliefs AND techniques you can use in a variety of situations. These techniques not only help you deal effectively with day-to-day situations, they also will help to insure that your children form the positive beliefs that they need in order to have successful lives. Having both helps you to deal with a lot of common situations quickly and to deal with your unique challenges by applying the basic principles. That way you are never at a loss for what to do. In fact...

“Parenting The Lefkoe Way” Is The Only Place In The World You Can Find This Information.

My Mission is to end the suffering in the world. I am committed to ending the chain of dysfunction from going down to yet another generation. I am committed to your children having the very best lives imaginable. I am committed to your life being easier as a parent. Mostly I am committed to the world being a place where people treat each other with dignity and respect, whether it’s parent to child, child to parent, or person to person and culture to culture.

Because I’m so confident you won’t find this information anywhere else, I want to make it easy for you to try it. That’s why, I’m giving you...

A Parent-to-Parent Triple Guarantee

Plus, because I want you to have as much support from me as possible, I’m also throwing in these bonuses for you!

Bonus #1: The Other Perspective

In this audio CD my daughters Brittany, now 22, and Blake, now 28, share about
their childhoods and their lives today. They speak candidly about how the way
they were parented has allowed them to have the incredible lives they live today.

Bonus #2:  Your Companion Workbook

I realized that often my students are not able to follow through only because they have nothing to stick with, because the notes are all over the place. Which is why I am sending you workbook right with the course for you to keep up with yourself.

The Investment That Can Change Your Child’s Future

I have personally used The Lefkoe Method to help thousands of individuals. I've conducted countless workshops and spoken at many PTA’s, school events, and conferences. In addition, my husband and I wrote a special guide called, “The Chicken Soup for the Soul Guide to Effective Parenting”.

I don’t like to call myself a “parenting expert” per se, though that is what many other people prefer calling me. I prefer to see myself as a “parenting guide”, because at the end of the day, the only expert for your child is - you. I’m only here to support you to become the best expert you can be by helping you discover what your job as a parent really is and how to do that job as effectively as possible.

All I’m saying is, why not give it a try. It could change your child’s future in the same way that it has already touched the lives of over 30,000 parents and their children.

Give yourself a chance to become a more conscious parent today, for your children’s sake.

Warmly,

P.S: The pressure of being a parent is hard enough, what more the pressure of doing it alone. Watch the video below to see how Lefkoe, The Parenting Way, helped a single dad raise happy, successful kids.

P.P.S: Don’t forget that I want to make this as risk-free for you as possible. That’s why you have my “Parent-to-Parent Triple Guarantee”.